Indonesia is a country rich in values and culture. All kinds of works of art and verbal traditions in the form of rhymes, proverbs, proverbs, and literature from every aspect abound in their own country. Proverbs or paribasan in Javanese are a group of words that are fixed in structure and have a specific message or purpose. Friends of Javanologi, one of the proverbs that we will discuss this time is “Nabok Nyilih Tangan“. This one proverb is quite popular and probably often heard among Javanese people. For the Javanese people, paribasan has a very important value in life and even reflects character, nature, and behavior so it is highly recommended to learn it.

Nabok Nyilih Tangan” literally means hitting and borrowing a hand. Broadly speaking this saying means to hit by borrowing someone else’s hand. If we dissect the words nabok, it can be interpreted as slapping, hitting, and or hurting. ‘Nyilih‘ comes from the root word silih which means to borrow, then gets the affix ny- which means to borrow. Meanwhile, ‘tangan‘ in this proverb can be interpreted as a real name or hand.

Friends of Javanologi, this proverb that has a negative connotation is usually pinned on someone who acts cowardly, is not chivalrous, or cunning, and wants the good of his name to be maintained. A simple example is when someone wants revenge or wants to hurt a party, but he orders someone else to be the executor. So that the good name of the first party will be maintained.

Writer: 
Nimas Ayu Anggraini

Source:

https://www.idntimes.com/life/education/anoraga-ilafi/7-peribahasa-jawa-c1c2?page=all

https://corojowo.blogspot.com/2013/08/kumpulan-peribahasa-dalam-bahasa-jawa_3.html